Tuesday, September 3, 2013

The world keeps spinning

What is wrong with this world?! I have been trying to stay away from angry posts but I'm so exhausted I don't care. I sent a text to a friend I hadn't talked to in three months. His name came up today and well I wondered how he was. So my text said, "hey stranger?" I got an angry text back from his pregnant fiancĂ©e. Saying well... Get lost.... Ok so I try to curb her anger, explaining myself, how i know him, I mean no harm, congratulations, I wish you the best of luck. I get back...., never contact him again, F off basically." So I sent, I understand and left it there. This isn't the first time disgruntled girls have sent me texts, calls whatever... It's not the second.... Heck it's not the third.... 
I lose more friends to angry girls or friends that hit on me. Now clearly this girl doesn't know me from plain Jane.... At least I don't know how she would. So are all girls like this? If not what am I doing to cause this? I'm actually pretty hurt that this girl would feel so threatened or hate me for no reason. 

On a happy note. I ran my 10k and I jumped off a 50 ft cliff I feel good about being old if I can still feel so young. 

4 comments:

  1. The thing with people is they judge you no matter what, where or without looking at the actual situation. They sure don't have a right to do that, but its they who're at fault not you, so sit back, and be glad for that 10k run and 50 ft. cliff dive. :)

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  2. Wow I can't believe she would react like that...what a sad way to be. You did the right thing by being the better person. Congrats on your 10K. As far as flying off of the cliff, I am fearful of heights and cuold never do that LOL.

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  3. jealousy is ugly. sometimes taking the high road is the only way to go... you did well :) congratulations on your accomplishments.

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  4. The world is a crazy place, and sometimes we hold on to people who are no longer relevant in our lives. If that guy friend of yours cared about you, he would have texted/called/visited you himself. It sounds like he is busy with his life and doesn't have time to have friends (especially pretty girls from his past, that his insecure girlfriend is threatened by).

    Don't let it get to you, just let him go. You know the saying, if someone is meant to be with you let them go and see what happens. If they don't return it wasn't meant to be (that goes for friendships too, not just with significant others).

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